“And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, “Speak to us of Children.”
And he said:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.”
“Children” from the book “Prophet” by Khalil Gibran
When I first read this poem about children, I understood that from the time our children are born they are on a journey into the future that we cannot imagine because that future resides in their own minds and souls. Our children are natural-born learners and come into this world with many dreams. And, best of all, they are born with the talents to turn those dreams into reality. While we cannot look into their minds and souls, we can help them realize their true potential by making the process of learning effortless for them.
PicabooLane is where we have fun exploring different aspects of life with our children as they build the skills needed to succeed in their future.
PicabooLane is where we build a loving relationship with our children as we blur the boundaries between playing and learning so that learning is effortless.
PicabooLane is where we meet as a community to share our experiences of learning with our children.
PicabooLane is where we join our children on a journey of discovery which ends when our children discover their true passion and realize their dreams.
We welcome you to join us on PicabooLane whenever you want to go on this journey with the children in your life!
About Me
My own journey down PicabooLane started when my daughter, Alexis, who is now 3.5 years old, was born. I wanted my time with her to be special in several ways: I wanted to have fun with her, laugh with her and explore the world with her in a way that helped her develop the skills and the knowledge she needed to succeed in life in a loving, caring environment. From the time she was born, I started reading books and articles on child development and how play could be used to teach children almost any skills and subjects effortlessly. The journey continued when my son, Ethan, who is now 19 months old, was born. As I continue to grow with my children, I want to share what I have learnt and invite other parents to share their experiences with everyone on PicabooLane.
Over these last few years I have been amazed at the power of children and how fast they can learn when they are taught in an environment full of laughter and love. It has been exhilarating watching them learn new skills and achieve a new level of understanding of the world around them everyday. At the same time, it has been humbling to realize that I cannot even keep up with their thirst for knowledge. If you are reading this blog, at some point you have experienced the same feelings. I hope you find this site useful as you look for ways to make the time you spend with your children special and make learning effortless for them.
Anu Lance, mother of two wonderful children, Alexis and Ethan